Marriage for love or faith?
I’m still amazed when I hear about someone getting married because of faith and not love. That fact that people are still marrying out of necessity to their religion is astonishing. Take Alex for instance. I don’t personally know Alex, but he is a friend of a friend. Recently his story reminded me how some people still hide who they are in order to be accepted by church or family. Alex is gay, yet he lives the life of a straight man to his friends, family, church, and even his fiance. Read the rest of this entry »










My boyfriend hates texting. Hates it. Doesn’t understand it. “I’m not married to my phone,” he says. “Why do people think they can just reach me whenever they want?”
Growing up as an only-child, I rarely made sacrifices. I was late in learning how to share, have patience, and practice selflessness. Now I’m dealing with the consequences. It’s impossible to be in a serious relationship without learning how to surrender.
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Undoubtedly you’ve heard the double standard: women who sleep around are called sluts, while sexually promiscuous men are considered manly men. But, does this inequality still exist?
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Julia is a beautiful, 30-something with long black hair, large breasts, and a thin frame–a woman who should never have a problem finding a date. She is not a woman who bounces from one man to another. She has had few relationships, including one marriage, that haven’t worked out. The dating scene hasn’t been in the forefront of her mind as of late and the thought of
Cheating: to practice fraud or deceit; or informally to be sexually unfaithful.
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Women either love receiving oral sex or hate it; there’s no in-between. I don’t understand how you can hate something that can be so pleasurable, and sometimes, quite frankly, that will give you the best orgasm you have ever had. Self-conscious thoughts should be thrown out the window ladies because the smell, taste, or sight won’t be enough to make him stop if he knows you are getting pleasure from him. Unless of course you really need to take care of the aforementioned items discussed in my post,
Internet dating has fast become a popular way to meet people. There are sites for every type of relationship: singles, couples, swingers, cheaters, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and friends. However, the universe of the internet continues to expand, delving into ever more specific niches. Here are some samples of the hyper specific dating sites I’ve come across.
After some serious thought and input from a few close male friends, I formed this list of five common turn-offs for men. Disclaimer: this is not the TOP five, but merely five things women do or possess that are complete and utter turn-offs. I also suggest that female readers ask your well-kept and clean male friends their opinion on if you can check yourself off this list.
All swingers have their own rules. Rules are what make swinging doable (pun intended). Soccer Dad and I have gone somewhat past the basic swinger lifestyle and have dabbled a bit in an open marriage. You might wonder how this is different. We are having sex with others, isn’t that open? It’s actually not. Typically swingers share their experiences together. That might mean sharing one bed with another couple and swapping, or having drinks and dinner with a couple and then following up with sex in the same room. Sometimes couples, myself included, venture to separate rooms for sex. So, where do solo events fit into these scenarios?
An inquisitive reader emailed 
At my former job I met a man I’ll call Scott. Scott came in multiple times to specifically seek my advice and stayed roughly an hour each visit. We talked about each others’ lives, specifically love and sex; I like to think these subjects are my forte and I talk about them with most everyone. The majority of the the conversations were about his ex and recent dates he went on. Once, when it was time for Scott to leave, I was on my way out for lunch. As we walked out together I said, “You know I don’t have that many good guy friends that I can chat with around here. We should be friends.”
As naive as it sounds, I have never been asked out-right to be a friend-with-benefits. Don’t get me wrong, I see nothing wrong with that, but I honestly did not think he had an ulterior motive. I was very, very wrong.
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I guess you could call Soccer Dad and I seasoned swingers,
Do you know where the g-spot is? You should! It is, after all, what allows some women to orgasm during vaginal penetration. Find her sweet spot manually and she’ll likely want to jump on your cock for more.
Exactly when did ordinary sex became taboo? What ever happened to the days of mind blowing sex with one partner who wasn’t married to someone else or hanging from a death defying sex swing? Have we evolved so much that sex itself isn’t good enough?
Everyone has their preferences when it comes to the opposite sex. I prefer dark hair, light eyes, and a man who stays in-shape. I focus on my figure and expect the same from men. However, don’t misunderstand me when I say preferences. I prefer certain characteristics, as do all women, but there are some things that are major turn-offs for most females.
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I’m at the point in my life where almost everyone I know is getting engaged. I’ve been to three weddings this year, which is more than I’ve attended in my entire life. I’m surrounded by my friends with “wedding fever.” If they’ve been in a long-term relationship, they’re pushing for a proposal. If they’re single, they’re rushing to find someone. Why the sudden rush?
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Boners, dykes, pubes, drag queens – I’ve discussed it all with my 13-year-old sister, Rose. We have a sort of no-holds-barred relationship; she can ask me anything and I’ll be completely honest. Growing up, my Bubbi and I shared the same sort of communication and I treasured it, so I wanted to offer this kind of relationship to my sisters.
Four different qualities can describe a woman: hot, beautiful, sexy, and sensual. Hot can be easily achieved with the right clothes, hairstyle, and make-up. Beautiful is, take your breath away, crack a smile smitten. Sexy is an attitude that can be displayed through body language and accentuated with clothing. Sensual is more of an action that stems from sexy, her sexual undertones and mannerisms all relate back to a sexy female, and of course, sex.
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