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CL Feature: Gen of The Genitorturers, who play The Ritz Ybor on Friday night (with video)

Posted by Leilani Polk on Nov. 4, 2009, at 11:26 am

gen1The siren wails of ascending notes, the speedy electro hammering of programmed drums and a fat and sinister guitar riff open Blackheart Revolution. And then the bestial growl of Genitorturers frontwoman/namesake Gen aggro blasts onto the track and demands your undivided attention: “Well no one cares about the rock star illusion / No one cares because the mystery is gone / Well, I know it’s time for evolution / Now I’m a savior and I’ve got a solution / I’ve whipped the masses and my legion’s grown strong / So I’m here to lead the revolution now.”

“It gets you, it grabs you,” Gen says about “Revolution,” the first song on her band’s fifth and latest studio release, which was co-produced by Genitorturers bassist David “Evil D” Vincent (Morbid Angel) and Scott Humphrey (Motley Crue, Rob Zombie, Ozzy Osbourne). “That’s definitely one of my favorites because it was a challenge trying to figure out how I was going to approach the vocals — the song needed to have a lot of attitude and it needed to be seething and powerful. David actually tracked a lot of the vocals on the record, and man, he just kept pushing me. He’d say, ‘Nope, not good enough. Nope, not good enough. Do it again.’ To the point where he got me so pissed off … there’s a scream on there that’s very heartfelt.”

Gen is a versatile singer — she can hit high notes, turn on the sweet croon, the sexy snarl, the commanding roar, the ferocious howl, the playful purr. Her vocals are set against big, ballsy industrial rock and electro-metal. The result is brutally seductive mayhem. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: 120 Days of Genitorture, blackheart revolution, cum junkie, david vincent, evil d, fetish, fetish music, gen, genitorturers, IRS records, joan of arc, morbid angel, razor cuts, scott humphrey, Sexy, the genitorturers
Posted in Concerts, Music |



Clips of fetish performances at Taboo 3 (video NSFW)

Posted by Sex and Love editor on Nov. 3, 2009, at 1:30 pm

taboo3 video clipBelow are a few video clips from two of the fetish performances at Taboo 3, at The Castle in Ybor City. The first features local Tampa model Evelyn Rose acting out a medical fetish scene with an unruly patient. The second is a snippet of Idelsy in her revealing outfit.

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Tags: BDSM, Castle, fetish, Idelsy, leather, Taboo 3, Ybor
Posted in Sex and Love |



Internet dating: new sites to check out

Posted by Rebecca Ammon on Nov. 1, 2009, at 2:12 pm

dating-rules_965787[1]Internet dating has fast become a popular way to meet people. There are sites for every type of relationship: singles, couples, swingers, cheaters, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and friends. However, the universe of the internet continues to expand, delving into ever more specific niches. Here are some samples of the hyper specific dating sites I’ve come across.

My favorite site so far is Cougarlife.  I’m not quite a cougar (I’m 37), but I do fancy a younger 20-something man, and would be happy to join this site!

For those who have a very particular fetish, you may find a potential partner in Extreme Restraints Dating, where members are encouraged to explore their hidden fantasies.  I poked around this site (its free!) and discovered there are some real hotties with fetishes I’ve never even imagined! Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: 420, amish, book lovers, car lovers, cougar, couples, dating, fetish, Gay, lesbien, online dating, Rebecca Ammon, swingers, tattoo
Posted in Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love |



Kinky pictures from Taboo 3 at the Castle (NSFW)

Posted by Ava Lussuria on Oct. 29, 2009, at 9:04 am

_DSC0130Halloween came early Saturday at The Castle with Taboo 3. If you couldn’t make it, check out the photo gallery below for a taste of what you missed. Performances by Angela Ryan, Idelsy, Oni & Jody, Evelyn Rose, Victoria Sapphire, Aerial Eye Burlesque, Curse Mackey, DJ Tom Gold, DJ Sean, DJ Nemesis, and DJ Rob Givens. Nude body painting, fetish vendors, the Senator wearing a rubber condom, a naked desser bar, and some of the nicest people you’ll ever meet.

Photos by Shannon Adams.

(Pics below very NSFW) Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: Aerial Eye Burlesque, Angela Ryan, BDSM, christopher evans, Curse Mackey, DJ Nemesis, DJ Rob Givens, DJ Sean, DJ Tom Gold, Evelyn Rose, fetish, gallery, Idelsy, nude, Oni & Jody, Performances, photo, pictures, Taboo 3, the castle, Victoria Sapphire
Posted in Sex and Love, Uncategorized |



Love is a battlefield: fetish model Angela Ryan talks shop (pics NSFW)

Posted by Shawn Alff on Oct. 21, 2009, at 12:25 am

Angela ryan multiple pin-upsAngela Ryan, one of many nation fetish acts performing at Taboo 3 this Saturday, describes her adventures in the world of alternative modeling.

Creative Loafing: How did you become a Fetish/pinup model and a burlesque performer?

Angela Ryan: I modeled a little professionally as a child and my mother constantly had a camera in my face. After I got through those gawky teenage years I picked it back up. When I was 20 I was asked by a friend who was a photographer to model for him. It sparked an interest in me since I was so familiar with posing as a child. I decided to pursue it further and was approached by photographers all over the country to work with them. I started doing burlesque to further my creative outlets. I ended up quitting my retail and cocktailing jobs to travel. I have been modeling and performing full time ever since. It started out as just fun but I have been lucky enough to make a career out of it! Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: Angela Ryan, fetish, model, performance, pictures, pin-up, Taboo 3, Topless
Posted in Sex and Love, Uncategorized |



Sex and love events around Tampa: Oct 8-24

Posted by Shawn Alff on Oct. 8, 2009, at 12:00 pm

A-16 night moves adult entertainment awards 112 2008 Ron JeremyOct 8th-12th. The 17th Annual Night Moves Adult Awards. Meet your favorite adult entertainers like Jessica Drake, Kaylani Lei, Alektra Blue, Bree Olson, Kayden Kross, Alexa Jordan, Alexis Ford, Angelina Armani, Austyn Moore, Candi Lane, Chennin Blanc, Christy Wild, Deliah Strong, Derrick Pierce, Eva Angelina, Evelyn Rose, Jazella Moore, Kayden Kross, Kaylani Lei, Kylie Ireland, Lexi Lamour, Lindsey Lovehands, Lisa Sparxxx, Mariah Milano, Nikki Rhodes, Nikki Sexton, Rebecca Love, Savanna Stern, Taryn Thomas, Teagan Presley, Trina Michaels, Veronica Rayne, and Zoe Britton. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: 17th Annual NightMoves Adult Entertainment Awards Show, adult, Awards, event, fetish, fetish circuit, love, porn, Porno, Sex, show, star, strip-club
Posted in Sex and Love |



Sex and love events around Tampa: Oct 3 – 24

Posted by Sex and Love editor on Sep. 30, 2009, at 9:08 pm

BloodlustSat. Oct. 3. Bloodlust. A vampire themed fetish party. Indulge your darkest desires at St. Petersburg’s only no limits, clothing optional, private fetish club. Fetish and belly dancing performances, open play dungeon equipment, themed art by Chainsaw Chuck & Sage666, and leather and jewelry vendors. Book signing by Andrea Dean Van Scoyoc. Thrown Dom Depot & Night Side Production. 21+. BYOB. 8pm. Fetish 2 Fetish 3150 46th #B St. Petersburg FL, 33714. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: events, fetish, love, nightmoves adult entertainment awards, Sex
Posted in Sex and Love, Sex and Love events |



VIP in the Castle’s dungeon room (pics NSFW)

Posted by Shawn Alff on Sep. 27, 2009, at 6:44 pm

_DSC0118“I feel like I’m in a horror movie,” photographer, Shannon Adams said at the VIP Dungeon Party Saturday.

Fetishists with black electrical tape X-ing out nipples, PVC suits struggling to restrain curvaceous bodies, and leashes chaining submissives to their masters’ belts, roamed The Castle’s Dungeon Room. On the padded tables, beds, and couches coated in vinyl that could be easily wiped down, exhibitionists were bound, flogged, and paddled to the electro-industrial beats of DJ Rob Givens and Purple CAT. What made the scene like a horror set wasn’t the sinister outfits, but how the partiers in blood-resistant costumes were overly friendly. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: BDSM, Bettie Page, bound, Castle, dungeon room, evan christopher, event, fetish, flogged, NSFW, paddled, party, Pics, PVC, shannon adams, Stryker Vawn, sumissive, Taboo 3, whipped, Ybor
Posted in Sex and Love |



Sex & love events around Tampa: Sept 26 – Oct 12th

Posted by Sex and Love editor on Sep. 23, 2009, at 9:37 pm

Stryker von - pastiesSat. Sept. 26. VIP Dungeon Party. The first ever VIP Dungeon Party is an exclusive event for 250 fetish enthusiasts. X-rated performances by StrykerVawn. In addition to the fetish equipment already set up in the Castle’s dungeon room, there will be a Roman cross, suspension spreader, padded kneeler, and a coffin cage. $15. DJ Rob Givens. The Castle 2004 N. 16th St. Ybor 33605.

Sat. Sept. 26th. Ride ‘Em Cowgirl Swingers’ Party. Come dressed in your hottest cowboy or cowgirl outfits and scoot your boots on the dance floor! Ladies, feel free to take a ride down the happy trail in the “Sybian Saddle!” There will be a hottest Badonkadonk (Smokin’ Hot Ass) contest and Sensual Swingers will be providing prizes. 9pm-?. Visit Tabooswingers.com Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: 17th annual night moves adult awards, Alektra Blue, bay, Bliss Cabaret, Bree Olson, Caliente, Clearwater, club, cowgirl, dallas bull, Déjà Vu Showgirls, diamonds, DJ Rob Givens, event, fetish, FL, Foxy, Jessica Drake, Kayden Kross, Kaylani Lei, Largo, naked, nude, Nudity, party, performance, pool party, porn stars, slave auction, Strip, Stryker Vawn, swinger's party, Taboo 3, Tabooswingers.com, Tampa, the castle, the quest, VIP Dungeon Party, x-rated, Ybor City
Posted in Sex and Love, Sex and Love events |



Fetish duo, Stryker Vawn, does Ybor (pics NSFW)

Posted by Shawn Alff on Sep. 21, 2009, at 12:44 pm

Stryker von - pastiesStryker Vawn, the XXX fetish tag-team from Austin, Texas, will perform for an intimate crowd at the VIP Dungeon Show, Saturday Sept. 26. The leather clad Stryker and perpetually topless Vawn, took a break from whipping and prodding each other on stage to bare it all to CL.

-How would you describe a Stryker Vawn performance?

2 parts burlesque, finely chopped

1 part Vaudeville, peeled and pressed

6 parts perversion, stewed in sex butter

3 parts fantasy, drizzled with honey

1 part fury, ground coarsely

Mix contents vigorously in your mind until creamy thick.

-Do relatives know about your alter egos?

YES. When we first started, there was always a family member in the audience. They think we are weird but accept us for doing what we enjoy.

Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: act, alter ego, austin, bachelor party, bare, BDSM, burlesque, club, costumes, crowd, day jobs, fantasy, Fashion, fetish, fetish factory, fetishist, g rated, Halloween, immoral, LATEXNEMESIS, law, leather, legal, libider, mask, Music, naked, nude, outfit, perform, perversion, Pics, pictures, pornographic, prodding, PVC, Rubber 55, runway, Saturday, september, sex show, Sexy, show girls, Stage, Strip, stripper, Stryker Vawn, tag-team, texas, Topless, Vaudeville, Vegas, VIP Dungeon Show, whipping, work, XXX
Posted in Sex and Love |



Sex and love events around Tampa: Sept 18 – 26

Posted by Shawn Alff on Sep. 17, 2009, at 2:39 pm

pool partyFri. Sept. 18. Crossover Night at Alt Pathway. A mix of fetish enthusiasts and swingers featuring live music by “SexWhacks.” $10. 8pm-12midnight. Alt Pathway restaurant and lounge  810 E. Skagway, Ave. Tampa.

Sat. Sept. 19. 3rd Annual Midsummer Night’s Dream. Nudity, dancing, and free food–what more could you want? $0-20. Caliente Resort Gran Via Blvd. Land O Lakes, FL 34637.

Sun. Sept. 20. Pervy Pool Party. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: 3rd Annual Midsummer Night’s Dream., Alter Ego dancers, American-style BBQ, Badonkadonk, Caliente Resort, coffin cage, Crossover Night at Alt Pathway, dancing, DJ Danny Bled, DJ Rob Givens, events, fetish, free food, land o lakes, Nudity, padded kneeler, Pervy Pool Party, Ride ‘Em Cowgirl Swingers’ Party, Roman cross, september, SexWhacks, StrykerVawn, suspension spreader, Sybian Saddle, Taboo 3, Tampa, the castle, VIP Dungeon Party, x-rated
Posted in Sex and Love, Sex and Love events, Uncategorized |



8 tips for dating younger women

Posted by Miss Ginger Millay on Sep. 14, 2009, at 3:00 pm

I’ve spoken with many women about their experiences dating older men. After repeatedly hearing the samelolita1 pros and cons, I decided to compile a list of tips for men who would like to successfully date younger women. You’re welcome.

1) Don’t make a big deal about the age difference. You can’t completely avoid the discussion, but unless she specifically finds it exciting (some do), don’t bring it up often. Avoid making her feel like a fetish item. Instead, let her know that you really like her and she just happens to be younger. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: clingy, condoms, cougar, CREEP, dating, fetish, girls, lolita, maturity, protection, prowl, relationship, safe sex, Sex, sugar daddy, women, younger
Posted in Education, Lifestyle, Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love |



Dirty hot sex: a second try with a couple new to swapping

Posted by Rebecca Ammon on Aug. 23, 2009, at 10:42 pm

I just noticed that I have a bruise on my breast.  Does this mean the sex was really good or really bad? That all depends on what you like in bed. For me, my weekend sex, bruises and all, was pretty damn good.

Soccer Dad and I walked into the second bar of the night on our ‘date’ with a hot younger couple.

“You don’t have to liquor me up,” I said to my potential sex partner. “I’m a sure thing,”

Everyone laughed, but the fact remained that we were there to get comfortable with each other before having sex with virtual strangers. This is the basis of the swinging lifestyle after all. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: Adult events tampa, affairs, ashleymadison, bisexual, body modification, body piercing, cheating, choking, clitoris, dirty sex, doggie style, female ejaculation, fetish, Florida's Finest Couples, fuck, fuck buddies, fuck her hard, G-shot G-spot, hair pulling, penis, penis hype, penis performance, Playfulswingers.com, Rebecca Ammon, saturday night, Sexual partner, Spanking, summer fun, Swappernet.com, swingers, swingers club, swinging, Taboo, tattoos, unicorn, vagina
Posted in Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love |



Rape fantasy: the ultimate taboo

Posted by Miss Ginger Millay on Aug. 19, 2009, at 11:40 pm

“To be violated is perhaps a need in women, a secret erotic need.”
- Anais Nin

I am an incredibly dominant woman – a dominatrix, if you will. I frequent fetish parties and take pleasure in enacting people’s fantasy scenarios. Some of my slaves like pain, others humiliation, and some just enjoy doing as they’re told.

On the fetish scene, people only see my femme dom persona, Mistress Ginger: a whip-wielding woman in a vintage slip and seamed stockings, or perhaps a leather-clad school girl leading a gaggle of boys on leashes.

This won’t change any time soon, but I have a hidden fantasy that I keep secret even from those with whom I’m most intimate. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: 1974, a dominatrix, Anais Nin, dominant woman, fantasies, fetish, Freud, giney tickle, Hariton, images, Jaffe, Knafo, Pornography, rape, scenario, scene, Singer, slaves, study, violent sex
Posted in Sex and Love |



Sex and love events around Tampa: July 30-Aug 15

Posted by Shawn Alff on Jul. 30, 2009, at 1:58 pm

Thur. July 30. Swingers Karaoke. ALT Pathway restaurant and lounge. 810 E. Skagway, Ave. Tampa.

Fri-Sat. July 31-Aug 1. ABC and Blacklite Swingers Parties. Come dressed as sexy as you want, just so long as you are wearing Anything But Clothes for the Friday night party. On Saturday night, there will be a Blacklite Party with the heated pool open all night. 9pm. $20-$50 plus the cost of renting a room. Couples and single women only. Ramada Inn. Kissimme FL. For more infor check out the Aahz crew. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: 1000 State Road, Aahz, abc, ALT, Anastasia Pierce, art, Aug, ball, BDSM, Blacklite, bondage, Caliente, Con, couples, Diplomat Resort, Eden, Emily Addison, fetish, Fort Lauderdale, Fri, Friction, Friday, George Perez, Hollywood, industry, Jade Indica, Jean Bardot, July, karaoke, Kendra James, Kissimme, Lounge, Michael Meyers, night, O Lakes, Orlando, Paige Richards, party, Pathway, pool, porn, Ramada, restaurant, room, rope, Sat, Satin, Saturday, school, seduction, show, Silk, Sinful, Stacy Burke, swingers, Tampa, Thur, Tony Moran, Tonya Kay, trade
Posted in Sex and Love, Sex and Love events |



Skin Two, or how I discovered my fetish for fetish bars (pics NSFW)

Posted by Shawn Alff on Jul. 28, 2009, at 3:58 pm

The week leading up to Skin Two, eyes lit up whenever I mentioned I had extra tickets to Secret Room’s fetish party and medical fashion show at The Castle. Friends were excited to finally have a chance to show off their fancy lingerie or to just ogle fetishists in fishnets. Of course when Saturday rolled around, I stood alone in line to The Castle, fighting my impulse to flee.

Normally I pride myself on going out in public wearing one of my wigs and an outfit that highlights my aerodynamic crotch. But, I wasn’t used to wearing a bedazzled codpiece in front of a crowd that thought this sort of thing was normal. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: Bar, bars, Batman, Bettie Page, chains, clubster, codpiece, cross dresser, Dance, doctor, dominatrix, duct tape, dungeon room, electrict tape, exhibitionists, fashion show, fetish, fetish con, fetish model, fetishists, fishnets, flog, g-string, Gia Nova, go-go dancers, gothic, Kamila, leather, Lena, machete, Maggie Delena, Maus, medical, nipples, party, Piercings, playboy, PVC, robin, secret room, sheer shirt, skin two, SM, Spanking, Speedo, stockings, Tampa, tattoos, teabag, the castle, the senator, thong patron, torture, vampire, vamps and vixens, whip, wig, Ybor City
Posted in Sex and Love, Uncategorized |



A short list of sexual fetishes (NSFW)

Posted by InnocentUWish on Jul. 26, 2009, at 5:20 pm

You may know some of the more “traditional” forms of fetishes like bondage, toe sucking, and dress up, but there are as many fetishes as there are personality types. While some are more public with their desires, deep down I think we all have our own little fetishes. Below is a list of some of the fetishes you may not be so familiar with.

(Pics below NSFW)

Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: abuse, acting, aging, animals, asphyxiation, baby, Bestiality, bond, bondage, cougar, dominatrix, Drink, eating, fetish, fetishes, infant, infantilism, intercourse, Men, person, pleasure, prime, puppy, Sex, sex doll, sex with animals, sexual arousal, sexual desire, sexual fetish, Sexual partner, sexually, someone, submissive, tattoo, tradition, Traditional, Watch, wife
Posted in Sex Terms Glossary, Sex and Love, Uncategorized |



Sex and love events around Tampa: July 25-Aug 15

Posted by Shawn Alff on Jul. 23, 2009, at 2:43 pm

Sat. July 25. Skin Two of London. An erotic art and fashion party. Three medical fashion shows by Baby Love’s Latex, Maggie Delena, and Ceres Moon Latex. Performances by Gia Nova and Jade Vixen. DJs Jade Vixen, DJ Sean, DJ Neiva, DJ Nemesis. Models: Angelica Syn, Betty Jaded, Carissa, Evelyn Rose, Jade Malice, Kamila, Lagata Negra, Lena, Maus, Secra, Silent K, Steevie Synthetic, Tararyze, and more. Vending by Angelica Syn and Orlando TNG. Fetish wear encouraged: fantasy, goth, glam, cyber, leather, lingerie, uniforms, vinyl etc. $10-15. 18+. The Castle 2004 N. 16th St. Ybor 33605. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: amp, Anastasia Pierce, Angelica Syn, Aug, August, baby, ball, BDSM, Betty Jaded, bondage, Caliente, Castle, Ceres Moon, City, com, Diplomat Resort, DJ's, Emily Addison, Evelyn Rose, fantasy, Fashion, fetish, Fort Lauderdale, George Perez, Gia Nova, Glam, goth, Hollywood, industry, Jade Indica, Jade Malice, Jade Vixen, Jean Bardot, July, Kendra James, latex, leather, lingerie, love, Maggie Delena, Michael Meyers, models, O Lakes, Orlando, Paige Richards, party, porn, rope, Sat, school, Silk, skin, Stacy Burke, Steevie, Tampa, Tony Moran, Tonya Kay, trade, Vending, Vinyl, Ybor
Posted in Sex and Love, Sex and Love events, Uncategorized |



Fetish vs. fantasy (NSFW)

Posted by Emmalee on Jul. 20, 2009, at 9:26 am

Some like to be dominated. Others are turned on by feet. Fantasies and fetishes are distinctly different, but a fantasy can include a fetish. After writing the article, Sex Outside the Box, I starting thinking about fantasies and fetishes. A sexual fantasy begins as a thought and is an event or act that isn’t normally played out in the bedroom. If you’re lucky you may be able to act upon this fantasy. A fetish can be an object or an act that isn’t considered outright sexual in nature. Either way a person can’t get off without incorporating their fetish. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: complete control, costumes, Emmalee Schmidt, fantasies, fetish, fetishes, foot fetish, having sex, impulsive act, international journal of psychoanalysis, jealousy, plushies, romance novel, Sex, sex dream, sex fantasy, sex fetish, sex life, sexual fantasy, sigmund freud, sparks, spontaneity, squashing, threesomes, time and place, women
Posted in Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love |



Casual encounters: one man’s Oprah fetish fulfilled by Craigslist

Posted by Geraldo Pizzicato on Jul. 15, 2009, at 9:09 am

Sometimes you’re looking for love, but sometimes you just want to find someone on the internet who can be your personal Oprah. To fulfill this fetish, I again turned to Craigslist. Below is my original post followed by my favorite responses. (All names and personal info have been changed to protect the weird)

tampa bay area craigslist > casual encounters

Skinny White Guy looking for his Oprah – m4w – 23 Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: Black, black woman, breasts, business trips, casual encounters, celebrity, celebrity fetish, chest, craiglist, Craigslist, dick, encounter, Encounters, favorite books, fetish, fuck, fun time, geraldo, great britain, ham, husband, internet, looking for love, mrs robinson, Ms. Stevens, oprah, penis, saying things, scream, skinny, tampa bay area, young dick
Posted in Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love |



Giantess, vore, crushing porn for the deaf: the strangest thing you’ll ever see (video)

Posted by Shawn Alff on Jul. 9, 2009, at 2:49 pm

When creating sexual aids, i.e. porn, for the handicapped, one of the most common misconceptions is that they’re into vanilla sex, but the handicapped are just as freaky as the rest of us. While it may surprise you to learn there’s porn specifically for the blind and deaf, it may shock you to discover that there’s porn for the deaf who are into giantesses (giant women), CGI, feet, vore (being eaten whole), and crushing (being stepped on). Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: CGI, Deaf, fetish, freaky, giant, Giantess, handicapped, Markie, porn, Sex, tribe, vanilla, video, vore, woman, youtube
Posted in Sex and Love, Uncategorized |



Sex and love events around Tampa: July 11-19

Posted by Shawn Alff on Jul. 9, 2009, at 12:53 pm

Sat. July 11th. Mistress Mayhem at The Quest. Tampa’s most wicked dominatrix will be stopping by to discipline naughty submissives. The Quest. 12517 66th St. N. Largo, FL 33773.

Sat. July 11. Ultra-Glam Fetish Party @ Purgatory. Show off your brightest colors, fishnets and animal print patterns, outrageous hair and over-the-top makeup! Custom steel bondage equipment will be set up throughout the club to encourage safe and consensual play. Creative bondage, spanking, flogging, fetish games and the ultimate mind fuck are also encouraged. DJs Danny Bled and Godfather.18+. $15-$20. Purgatory Nightclub. 1000 State Road 84 City, Fort Lauderdale, FL Zip. 33315. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: adult, bondage, Caliente Blvd., City, consensual, Danny Bled, Diatribes, discipline, DJ's, dominatrix, East Central, fetish, Fort Lauderdale, fuck, Glam, July, Largo, Lounge, makeup, Michael Matteo, mistress, naughty, nightclub, O Lakes, Orlando, party, Pegasus, penis, play, Purgatory, Quest, Ruth-Eckerd-Hall, safe, Sat, Sexy, show, Stage, Stardust, superhero, Taboo, Tampa, TBPAC, Ultra, Vita Devoid, Wed
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Searching for my niche in the adult industry (video and pics)

Posted by Camile on Jul. 4, 2009, at 11:36 am

Warning: (insert obligatory warnings about nudity, fetishes, and over weight people).

We were shooting the tenth clip of the night. At least I think it was the tenth. Don’t quote me on that. I do know that it was late enough that my boyfriend, The Puppy, called to ask if everything was okay. Naked and lying on my back, I was staring at the walls and ceiling. It was either that, or stare at the underside of Darling Rikki’s breasts.

(preview video and pics after the break) Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: Adult Modeling, balloon fetish, BBW, BHM, Burping Fetish, Clips4Sale.com, Darling Rikki, fetish, Fun With Andy, porn, Sex, Softcore Porn, Stripped Images, Tiffany Cushinberry
Posted in Education, Sex and Love |



Sex and love adult events around Tampa Bay: July 3-19

Posted by Shawn Alff on Jul. 2, 2009, at 9:36 pm

July 2-5. GaYBOR Days 2009.

-Thur. July 2. Weekend Kick-off Social Party. 2 hours of GameWorks fun card. Drag Show. Drinks & Tapas included! Families and adults welcome. $15. Gameworks.
-Fri. July 3. VIP Party at The Nest. 6-9pm. 1430 E. th Ave. Ybor City.
-Fri. July 3. DJ Manny Lehman and Pistol Pete Underwear Fashion Show. 10pm-3am. Steam Fridays 1507 E. 7th Ave. Ybor City.
-Sat. July 4. GaYBOR Poolside Beach Party. 4pm-8pm. $15. Tampa Howard Johnson Riverfront Plaza.
-Sat. July 4. Derrick Barry as Britney Spears. 9pm-3am. G Bar. 1401 E. 7th Ave. Ybor City.
-Sun. July 5. GaYBOR Brunch. 11am-2pm. Streetcar Charlie’s. 1811 N. 15th St. Ybor City.
-Sun. July 5. The GaYBOR Bar Crawl. $20. 5pm- Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: adult, Bar, bondage, britney spears, Caliente Blvd., Central Ave, Charlie, club, Danny Bled, Derrick Barry, Diatribes, downtown, Drag, drinks, East Central, fetish, Fri, Friday, fun, G bar, GameWorks, gaybor, GaYBOR Days 2009, Gunn Highway, Johnson Riverfront, July, Kick-off, Lounge, love, Manny Lehman, Michael Matteo, Myra, Nest, O Lakes, Orlando, party, Pegasus, penis, play, Purgatory, Resort, Ruth-Eckerd-Hall, Sat, Sex, Sexy, show, Social, St. Pete, Stardust, Sun, superhero, Taboo, Tampa-Bay, Tapas, Thur, VIP, Vita Devoid, Wed, weekend, Ybor City
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The lady that married the Eiffel Tower, and others with fetishes for inanimate objects (Video)

Posted by Rabid Nick Refer on Jun. 23, 2009, at 8:00 am

As you may have noticed summer is officially rolling into town this week, though it’s been hotter than lava in a toaster here in Tampa for a few weeks now. And since The Rabid One is doing quite well for himself: I splurged and purchased a hammock for my “pleasure zone” in the backyard. It’s amazing, comfy, relaxing- the perfect summer accessory.  And I love it. Like, LOVE it. But, my friends, I do not intend to marry it.

Not the way this woman has married the Eiffel Tower. Seriously.

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Tags: BBC, berlin wall, eiffel tower, fetish, inanimate objects, love, objects, objectum-sexuality, pat robertson, Rabid Nick Refer, Sex, susan eiffel
Posted in Education, Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love |



His kinks, my kinks: Sometimes they just don’t match up

Posted by Camile on Jun. 22, 2009, at 1:00 pm

It may surprise you to know that my boyfriend, The Puppy, and I enjoy different things in bed. Not “he likes it rough, she likes it slow” types of differences – I’m talking different fetishes and kinks. Some of our friends do not believe that we ever have this problem. They tell me their own experiences with lovers who only wanted sex if it was in the dark, missionary, and slow, when they (my friends) wanted it hard and fast, with the lights on. For most of them, the differences in the bedroom led to their break-ups. But The Puppy and I have been together for years. We’ve been dubbed “the most married, unmarried couple I know” by more than one friend. We make people want to hurl because we’re so head over stupid for each other. How in the world could such a couple possibly have issues in the bedroom? So, for all of the other couples who have ever been there, here is our story…
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Tags: Bedroom problems, dating, fetish, kink, polyamorous, polyamory, relationships, Sex, Sexual partner
Posted in Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love |



Top 10 adult getaways: XXX-tra special vacations (pics)

Posted by Shawn Alff on May. 21, 2009, at 4:39 pm

SUMMER

Florida’s Fetish Weekend. Itching to break in a whip or have your nipples electrocuted? Toss your best fetish gear in the Honda and head over to Fort Lauderdale for the 14th annual Fetish Weekend. The largest fetish event in North America, this 3-day fiesta attracts 2,000 enthusiasts to its main ball and themed socials: “The Beat & Greet,” “Extreme Players Bash” and the pool party. Dress code is strictly enforced so if you’re wearing chaps make sure they’re ass-less. May 22-24. fetishfactory.com.

Gay Days Orlando. Gay Days began 19 years ago as a single day when members of the GLBT community made an organized show of visibility by wearing bright red shirts and invading Disney’s Magic Kingdom. Since then, it’s expanded to a weeklong festival with over 135,000 people attending 40 citywide events, including wine tastings, female impersonator pageants, musical performances, comedy shows and a slew of club and hotel parties. Though Disney has more than a few pants-less, sexually ambiguous characters, the company doesn’t officially sponsor Gay Days, but plenty of other area businesses are out and proud in their support. June 2-8. gaydays.com.

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Tags: 14th annual, ABC: Anything but clothes, all-inclusive, bacchana, brothel, Caliente, Cap D'Agde, clothing-optional resort, Disney's Magic Kingdom, Dominican Republic, drag queen contest, escrots, Extreme Players Bash, Fantasy Fest, female ejaculation, female impersonator pageants, fetish, Florida, Florida's Fetish Weekend, Fort Lauderdale, France, gay cruise, Gay Days Orlando, gentleman's resort, glbt, Halloween Cruise, Hedo3, Hedonism III, Indiana, key west, land o lakes, lesbian cruise, Miami, Miss Nude Entertainer, Miss Nude Petite North America, Miss Nude Rising Star, nude side, nude wedding, Nudes-A-Poppin Pageant, nudist retreat, pajama parties, Ponderosa Sun Club, prude side, Roselawn, shawn-alff, singles cruise, skinny-dipping, Sloppy Joe's, swingers cruise, Swingfest 2009, t-shirt competition, Tampa, tantric sex, The Beat & Greet, toga party, Viking, Village Naturiste
Posted in Sex and Love, Summer Guide, Uncategorized |



‘The Bachelorette’ has returned, looking for love, but shouldn’t she be looking for some damn good sex? (video)

Posted by Rabid Nick Refer on May. 20, 2009, at 9:42 am

If you are anything like the master of sexual disaster, Rabid Nick, your boob tube was on 24 watching Jack Bauer kick ass last night.  However, undoubtedly many of you were watching terror threats of a different variety: the premiere of the latest season of The Bachelorette. Having been jilted on a previous season of The Bachelor, Jillian Harris has not given up on finding her knight in prime time television armor.  Her claim to fame is that she can figure out a man simply by analyzing the toppings he puts on his hot dogs.  Wow.  Don’t worry, if you watched, none of us will judge you for being vapid.

(Video and More after the jump)

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Tags: Bachelorette, competition, Fame, fan, fetish, Foot, foot fetish, horny, kinky, Men, Panties, premiere, reality TV, Sex, sexual, show, smithsonian, stripper, Television, The Bachelor, TV
Posted in Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love, Television, Uncategorized |



Get your love on this weekend: May 8-10

Posted by Shawn Alff on May. 7, 2009, at 1:56 pm

Fri-Sun. May 8-10. Exxxotica Miami. The largest adult event and expo on the east coast, featuring adult entertainers Jesse Jane, Stoya, Angelina Armani, Riley Steele, Jenna Haze, Ron Jeremy, Sasha Grey, Teagan Presley, Savanna Samson, Bree Olson, Kaydeb Kross, Sunny Leone, Eva Angelina, Alexis Texas, Joanna Angel, and Gina Lynn.

Fri. May 8. Clothing Optional Foam Party. Live Bands, DJ, Foam, a potluck dinner, a pool, hot tub, camping, and nudity. What more could you want? A music video will also be shot on location so bring some friends to fill out the crowd. 7pm. $10. The Riverboat Nudist Club. www.NaturallyNude.com.

Sat. May 9. Foot Party at the Quest. The Fabulous Mistress Diana and friends will be hosting a foot, show, and boot fetish play party. Bring all your fabulous fetish shoes, high heel spikes, your skit kicker boots and your cute little twinkle toes and join us for a stomping good time cleaning, licking, sucking, and worshiping Tampa Bays most fabulous feet. 10pm. $30. The Quest. 12517 66th St. N. Largo, FL 33773. Read the rest of this entry »

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Posted in Sex and Love, Sex and Love events, Uncategorized |



Just a boy: my first run-in with a transsexual

Posted by Ricky Redwood on May. 7, 2009, at 1:02 pm

(Names and some descriptions changed to protect the innocent… or not-so-innocent)

My mother raised me to live a very vanilla lifestyle. We went to church each Sunday, had dinner at six o’clock, and I wasn’t supposed to have sex until I was married. I was happy with that lifestyle because I was sheltered and had no idea that there was a world outside of Jesus. That all changed when we got Internet service when I was ten years old.

I got the birds and the bees, the chains and the whips, and the chicks with the dicks all via the double-click (read that line out loud sometime, it’s fun). I learned that all girls loved to expose their bathing suit areas, loved being fucked (sometimes in the butt!), and even sometimes loved to make out with each other. And, with a valid credit card, I could have unlimited access. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: birds and the bees, chicks with dicks, dicks, fetish, fetish party, fishnets, Frank N. Furter, lesbians, polyamory, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Sex, stereotypes, subcultures, threesome, transsexuals, whips
Posted in LGBT, Sex and Love |



My fuck-buddy came over smelling

Posted by Ginger Ale on May. 4, 2009, at 10:49 am

Maybe she can handle smelly men but I can't

I’ve been taking applications and conducting interviews for my new fuck-buddy now for the past month. Mainly they’ve been short interviews and no one has been called back for a follow-up.  Why waste anymore of my time or bodily fluids on a sub par applicant?  I’m tired of the anticipation, only to be let down.  Don’t men in Florida know how to fuck a woman right?  I’m not asking for a lot.  Only to be bent over and fucked hard.  My hair pulled and my ass slapped.  I want to feel a cock stroking my pussy and making me cum.

Our first encounter was mind blowing.  We left each other satisfied but wanting more.  Before he’d even cum the first time he asked when he could see me again.  His fingers were gentle but left a trail of fire blazing where he touched me.  His kiss was hard and passionate, left my lips red and my body dripping with anticipation. He was a skilled and experienced lover, taking his time, sometimes taking five, just to make sure he made me cum several times before cumming himself.

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Tags: applications, bed, behavior, body odor, cheap hotels, Dark, Egyptian Cotton Sheets, experience, fetish, fuck, ginger ale, House, i like it like that, love, new, position, Sex, sexual fetish, smoke, taking five
Posted in Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love |



So, you want to go to a fetish party…

Posted by Mistress Sophie on Apr. 10, 2009, at 9:00 pm

Recently, I’ve been getting a lot of questions about how to explore the fetish lifestyle and approaching fem doms. So, take to your desks, students – here are the answers.  If you’ve never been to a public play party, but always wanted to go, the idea of walking into a club dressed in your best unused fetish gear probably fills you with excitement and nervousness. Relax, it’s not that hard. The safest way to participate in the world of kink is to attend your local munch, and then the public play party. I recommend the Tampa Munch and the Fetish Circuit play party (scheduled for this Saturday afternoon and evening, respectively).

Last month I spent some time discussing the benefits of munches: safety, education, real life interactions, discretion, and stress-free socializing with like-minded individuals.  If you want to go to your first fetish party, make the Tampa munch. Ask around, and introduce yourself to Edwin or Kimmie, the host and hostess. Let them know that you’re new, and thinking of attending the Fetish Circuit play party later that night. Both of them are friendly, gregarious people, who really enjoy their roles as newbie liaisons. If they can’t answer your questions, you probably don’t need to know the answers. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: fetish, fetish circuit, honey pot, kink, Mistress Sophie, public play, tampa munch
Posted in Education, Sex and Love, Uncategorized |



Get your love on this weekend: April 11-April 13

Posted by Shawn Alff on Apr. 10, 2009, at 3:40 pm

Sat., April 11: Taboo 2 : A masquerade party with a sexy fetish edge. Performances by Rubberdoll, Strukervawn, Rebecca’s Rubber Room, Evelyn Rose and the Vaudevillains. The event will also feature new fetish equipment, a naked dessert bars, and a rubber shadow box. 18+. $17-$20. The Castle in Ybor City.

Sat., April 11: Exotique Fetish Party. Fetish Factory’s 6th annual Exotique event – a tribute to 1950s fetish and the immortal Bettie Page. Participants are encouraged to break out their corsets, garters and girdles. The retro fetish theme is encouraged but not required, but a fetish dress code is strictly enforced! $15-$20. Purgatory Nightclub in Fort Lauderdale.

Sat., April 11. Fetish Circuit’s Monthly Party and Munch. All area fetish enthusiasts are encourage to come meet local players as well as a large group of Orlando Kinksters. The event will feature vendors with new toys and clothing, equipment, and a DJ spinning into the early morning. Fetish Circuit will also host its monthly munch earlier at MyPlace Bar & Grille. 9pm-3pm. $10. 18+. The Honeypot. Ybor City 1507 E 7th Avenue, Ybor City. Fetish Attire Requested. Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: and rubber shadow box, Bettie Page, Bikini contest, Evelyn Rose and the Vaudevillains, Exotique Fetish Party, fetish, Fetish Circuit's Monthly Party, fetish equipment, fetish factory, Fort Lauderdale, G bar, Lingerie Mechanical Bull Riding Contest Room, masquerade party, Men's Amateur Strip Contest, MyPlace Bar & Grille, naked dessert bars, Pornaoke at the Pegasus, purgatory nightclub, Rebecca's Rubber, Rubberdoll, strokers, Strukervawn, Taboo 2 tampa, taboo II tampa, tampa munch, the castle, Ybor City
Posted in Sex and Love, Sex and Love events |



Desperation finds a home: Craigslist’s casual encounters

Posted by Geraldo Pizzicato on Apr. 9, 2009, at 1:00 am

Craigslist personals ads are clearly the future of mating. Admit it, some of those cell phone shots of dudes spreading their cheeks in the mirror are of you. Being the virtually promiscuous young man that I am, I not only browse the personals for my own entertainment, I post absurd ads under the “Casual Encounters” section to see if anyone will respond. No matter how strange or perverse the post, my email inbox always fills up.

Yesterday I was feeling rather feminine, and decided to pose as a forty-seven year-old woman with a somewhat normal fetish, at least for Craigslist standards. Below is the actual ad, followed by the best of the over one hundred and twenty-five responses it received.

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tampa bay area craigslist > casual encounters

Fill my vagina – w4mm – 47

My vagina feels empty.  I want it to be filled.  I don’t want to have sex, but I want it to be filled.  You can put anything in my vagina.  The choice is yours.  I will lay on my bed and spread my legs.  I’ll leave the door open.  You casually creep in and insert your offering into my vagina.  I’ll be doing this all day Sunday.  Just come in and stuff my vagina with whatever you have.  I want my vagina to be filled to the brim with glorious things (but not penises sorry).  You can jack off too me if you want or bring a partner.  I will be getting stuffed all day.  Please avoid using sharp or very harmful metal objects.  Other than that, you can put whatever you want in me.  Stuff me! Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: cl, Craigslist, desperate, desperation, Dog, fetish, fisting, fuck, fuck buddies, fuck buddy, group sex, hook up, hook-ups, humor, internet, iPhone, love, Men, online dating, orgy, oyster, penis, personal ads, prostitution, Sex, stuffing, Tampa, vagina, whore
Posted in Education, Relationships & Dating, Sex and Love |



Workout sex-tapes: the next generation of fitness

Posted by Shawn Alff on Apr. 1, 2009, at 11:15 pm

Each month Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Maxim, Men’s Health, and Playboy come out with rehashed articles recounting the health benefits of sex. I don’t need “fitness experts” to tell me that most any type of moderate physical exertion has health benefits (see declaimer below). This is not one of those articles. This blog is an open letter to adult entertainment companies, urging them to produce a sex-tape workout series.

Sure, everyone knows regular sex can be like a workout, what with the shortness of breath and the need for a towel afterwards, but few people know how to get the most of this workout. It’s an untapped market. Most everyone needs guidance on how to use the equipment(sex swings, sex ramps, restraints) and which positions burn the most calories. Pop and Peep culture have created an obsession with sex and body image, which have in turn caused a boom in the sex and health industries. It’s time to combine and capitalize on these markets.

Will it sell? Exhibit A: Carmen Electra’s Aerobic Striptease-fifteen minutes of hot, steaming Read the rest of this entry »

Tags: adult industry, Amateur sex tapes, Back and Bust Blaster, Carmen Electra's Aerobic Striptease, Cosmopolitan, Douche-bags, drunk sex, exercise equipment, fetish, fitness, fitness industry, five pound dongs, Flirty Girl Fitness, Glamour, health, Hip-Hop Hump, Janine Lindemulder, Lil' Kim, masturbatory emissions, Maxim, Men's Health, milf, peep culture, Personal massagers, playboy, pop culture, PowerBars, provocative, Regis Philbin's walking workout tapes, Savanna Samson, sex industry, sex ramps, sex swings, sex-tape workout series, sexy body image, sexy jungle gym, spray tan, stamina, stormy daniels, sweatbands, Swedish Ball Routines, Tantric Dry Humping Classes, The Deep Bun Burn, The Rock Hard Trainer, thrusting, whiten my teeth
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