Viagra: swingers drug of choice?
Whether you are a 20-something single or a 50-something swinger,
you’ve encountered or experienced poor sexual performance at one time or another. Older men aren’t the only ones who sometimes have trouble getting erections. Nerves, alcohol, weed, or even condoms can cause men’s dicks to shrivel away to marshmallow land.
Recently I was emailed regarding the popular use of Viagra in the swinger lifestyle. This guy was a 20-something man who never really had an issue with getting an erection. After hearing how great the drug was he wanted to give it a shot. The experience was nothing to write home about. It was sex as usual. He was wondering if something outrageous is supposed to happen during sex when you take Viagra or if it just gets you hard and keeps you hard? Read the rest of this entry »









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Swingers
I used to think that if I paid to get into a swingers club (anywhere from $20-$100), I deserved some sex out of the deal. This logic wore off pretty quickly, though the desire and intention haven’t. Many times Soccer Dad and I go to swingers clubs just to hang around like minded people, flirt shamelessly, and behave borderline inappropriately. Believe it or not, sometimes we aren’t even looking for sex.
All swingers have their own rules. Rules are what make swinging doable (pun intended). Soccer Dad and I have gone somewhat past the basic swinger lifestyle and have dabbled a bit in an open marriage. You might wonder how this is different. We are having sex with others, isn’t that open? It’s actually not. Typically swingers share their experiences together. That might mean sharing one bed with another couple and swapping, or having drinks and dinner with a couple and then following up with sex in the same room. Sometimes couples, myself included, venture to separate rooms for sex. So, where do solo events fit into these scenarios?
I’ve
I guess you could call Soccer Dad and I seasoned swingers,
I’ve
Living the 
As I was driving
Women have it easy. They can get laid nearly effortlessly. Men on the other hand aren’t quite so lucky. Even the male half of a swinging couple must put forth the effort to catch the eye of a pretty lady or the
In the 80’s I did some things I’m not proud of, one of which was having sex with a married man. Yeah it was fun and he gave me money and lots of things, but eventually my morals kicked in and I broke it off. This guy had a horrible sex life with his wife who wasn’t bad looking. Today I find a similar situation with many male acquaintances who are not satisfied with their love lives. I understand that after10 or 30 years of marriage, sex can get a bit boring, so I’m here to provide a few tips to help keep things lively in the sack.
I love to masturbate! ![05_Sex[1]](http://blogs.creativeloafing.com/dailyloaf/files/2009/09/05_Sex1.gif)
Soccer Dad and I are off to another 








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