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Cheating: to practice fraud or deceit; or informally to be sexually unfaithful.

Although this definition seems clear-cut, what constitutes cheating in a relationship is often ambiguous. For some, cheating includes intercourse but not oral sex. Some count French kissing but not closed mouth kisses. But what about holding hands or snuggling — physical acts that are more associated with emotional connections than physical acts of passion? To take it a step further, can you cheat without physically touching someone else? Is fantasizing about someone else during sex cheating? What about flirting online? Believe it or not, Wikipedia actually has a page for this subject, describing it as an affair of the heart. Read the rest of this entry »

Soccer Dad and I are off to another swingers party this weekend filled with couples we know and many we don’t.  So how do we know a swinger’s party will be worth the trip and the price of admission if we have no idea if there will be anyone there we want to fuck? We don’t.

Vanilla couples may never completely understand swinging.  The lifestyle is based on looks, confidence, and sexual prowess.  You can be a perfectly nice person, and even attractive, but that doesn’t mean I want to have sex with you just because I arrive at a swinger’s party with a choker that reads, “I love cock.”  Swinger parties or clubs are similar to regular bars on Saturday nights: They’re meat markets, except for married folks. Read the rest of this entry »

Let’s get one thing straight.  Every woman should be treated like a princess. Women need to be handled with care and respect. Speak to them honestly and avoid trying to be something you are not; we see right through that. Here are some simple pointers for men who are a bit lost when it comes to women–especially those men who don’t realize they’re lost.

The guys who don’t talk about their dicks, chicks, sexual achievements, or money are the ones who have it, do it, and can use it. Read the rest of this entry »

I’m a frequent reader of secret blog sites.  I love knowing what other people are hiding, the secrets dieing to be told, and professing my own secrets from time to time.  I came across a particular secret, or maybe better described as a desire on a site called cavecanum.  The author suggested that there should be a symbol for finding someone willing to engage in oral sex with a stranger, kind of like the handkerchief code for gay men. The writer of secret #80903 says Read the rest of this entry »

Swingers are often stereotyped as having lascivious affairs, but depending on what you consider cheating, almost everyone is having some type of affair.

For me, an affair isn’t necessarily a physical relationship; it can be an emotional connection as well.  Depending on who you are, either connection can constitute an affair.

By this definition I have both emotional and physical affairs.  I’m not in love with these people; some are friends that I share a side of myself with that I don’t share with everyone. Others I just have sex with and don’t care if I ever see again. Read the rest of this entry »

At work, driving home, or alone at my computer–I need sex! I’m a 30 something swinger who must find creative ways to deal with her constant urges. I’ve heard stories of coworkers ducking away to the bathroom in pairs or having sex on their office desk after hours. Masturbating in the bathroom and sex at work aren’t something I’m into, but if that’s your thing, my only advice is don’t get caught. Read the rest of this entry »

The night starts out great. We are out for an evening of good friends, good cheer, a little laughter – and hot sex. The club we frequent is hopping with people. Women dressed in stretchy neon dresses, nighties, mini skirts, or low rider jeans (me) swarm around the bar. The music is the usual techno stuff that you would hear at any club, the air is filled with smoke, and the lighting is dim. I joke with my husband that the combination of alcohol, smoke, and dim lights makes everyone look hot! We squeeze our way to the bar and pay for the alcohol that we brought with us (typical bottle club).

After a few drinks I am the social butterfly, swirling between couples while my husband stands and talks to some friends we have met before. Swinging is like a game: Read the rest of this entry »

“I once dated a guy who brushed his teeth in between giving me oral and us having sex,“ she told me. As a sex and love writer extraordinaire it has become natural for my female gal pals to come to me with their sexual frustrations. I appreciate that, though it does annoy me how little effort my gender puts into pleasing their ladies. Don’t get me wrong, it makes me look like a better lover but hey, I’m am still here to help. Gentlemen, behold the Rabid One’s guide to pleasing your lady.

Whether it’s making love or “lets hope we forget this in the morning sex” men are going to crave getting off. Shock of shocks, I know. Well his dance partner does as well. Boys you need to learn about patience and knowledge.
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His nerves danced like flames.  “Where was she?” he thought.  It had been quite a few minutes since she excused herself to the bathroom to put some clothes on before they….well before they whatever.  He had no idea what to expect and questioned himself whether he was dong the right thing at all. “What the hell are you afraid of?” he kept repeating in his head, not that his brain was listening.  He almost stood up and slipped out quietly into the night, but the thought of being rude quelled his innocent anxiety.  All at once his racing thoughts were suddenly cut silent as the bathroom door finally opened.

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*Warning!* If the idea of chubby people and sex makes you want to bleach your eyes, don’t read any further.

Up until recently, two things I could say I had never done in the sack were filming and fisting. The latter tends to surprise people. Now that the deed is done, the people who know about it think that either The Puppy (my live-in boyfriend) or Mr. Chaotic (until recently my long-distance boyfriend) did the honors. They guessed wrong. The person who performed my first fisting was also my first female kiss. Her name is Luna Mystique and she’s one of the hottest BBWs you will ever meet.

As an aspiring adult model, I don’t feel that being on the lower end of the plus-size scale should be a deterrent.

Problem 1: I didn’t want to become one of those women with a casting couch/craigslist horror story. I wanted to find a trust-worthy site that dealt with either big breasts or BBW enthusiasts.

Solution: Ask a friend. Luna has a paysite with Stripped Images. The site caters to those who like more cushion for the pushin’. Read the rest of this entry »

D’costas had always fascinated me, what with his dark eyes, Indian tan skin, and lush red lips. I met him at college, but he wasn’t a student; he was an English professor, my English professor, and just a few years older than my nineteen years.

Professor D’costas always noticed me from behind his dark rimmed glasses. How could he not? I sat in the front row with a miniskirt. I’d catch him watching the skirt inch up my thighs when I crossed my legs. I giggled when he had to sit on the desk at the head of class until his hard-on died down. I could  see it straining against the crease in his jeans–so close I could reach out and grab it.

It was an ordinary hot afternoon in D’costas class. We got our ethics papers back, but mine didn’t have a grade. I coolly flipped through the stapled papers and saw a note on the last page: “See me after class.”

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This seems like a no brainer but it is still interesting. If nothing else it proves why making-out all night at a bar may not be a complete waste of time.

BEIJING, Feb. 16 (Xinhuanet) — Scientists who are starting to understand the biochemistry of kisses say that saliva increases sex drive.

Those in the kissing-science field of philematology are finding links between kissing and the hormones that affect coupling, researchers said at the annual meeting of the American

Association for the Advancement of Science as quoted by media Monday.

And these hormones are one of the keys to our reproductive success, so there’s a link to evolution and passing on our genes to the next generation. Read the rest of this entry »