Daily Loaf

While the swinging lifestyle is booming in some cities, smaller communities lack the big city perks of public places to meet and plenty of fresh faces.  Smaller communities have less to offer an adventurous couple out for a night of experimentation (otherwise known as fucking your friends). Although lifestyle related clubs are an excellent resource for hooking up, or for at least being around like-minded adults,  you can meet swingers without ever stepping foot into a club.

When lifestyle clubs aren’t close enough for an evening out, or they just don’t feel right, you may have to get creative when it comes to meeting other couples. The old fashioned way of advertising in the back pages of adult magazines is Read the rest of this entry »

To find other lifestyle couples, Soccer dad and I have become members of several swinger websites, we attend various lifestyle parties, and we frequent different swinger/lifestyle clubs.  The competition between lifestyle businesses is ruthless. Many have resorted to cheap tricks like slander to gain an edge in this very specific niche market. Unfortunately this vicious capitalism has led to some negative side-effects, like mudslinging and badmouthing between companies. Some even spread rumors regarding service, poor quality, or the illegal behaviors of rival businesses. While this main help these companies out in the short run, it has weakened the swinger community as a whole, and eventually limits the number and activity of lifestyle members.  Besides, if the only way to get an advantage over your competion is through slander, then you probably aren’t running a quality company in the first place. Read the rest of this entry »

I’ve been in a few bedrooms over the years and I’m always amazed by the sounds that come out of overly excited sex partners, either with me or in the bed next to me.  Everyone responds differently to sex, orgasm, and excitement, but  how much of that noise is genuine and how much is put on for show?

I am not an overly noisy person during sex.  I don’t really talk loudly about the dirty deeds I want you to do to me.  You could say I am more of a sexual whisperer.  If you were having sex with me you might experience my hot breath in your ear, whispering whatever comes to mind in my sexiest voice.  Although, sometimes I find myself being  just silly in bed and clowning around during sex.  Unfortunately this might be at your expense — sorry.  But, if you’re lucky enough to hear me raise my voice a bit, grind out a few words in a deep tone, you are probably hurting me, and well, at the moment it might be a good thing. Read the rest of this entry »

I guess you could call Soccer Dad and I seasoned swingers, as we’ve been involved in the lifestyle for more than eight years. But, even with this vast amount of experience I still don’t always know what swingers are looking for. Online swinger profiles offer some insight into understanding what swingers want, as well as illuminate some of the confusion involved in trying to make connections within the swinging scene. Read the rest of this entry »

Who has sex with strangers?  I think the answer is most of you. Whether you are a swinger, single person, or a perpetual cheater, it’s likely you’ve had sex with someone you consider a stranger.  So why do so many people think the swinging lifestyle is so strange — we too have sex with strangers, but at least we’re honest about it. Read the rest of this entry »