As I float around my pool today, naked of course, I fantasize about things I’d like to do naked. Some of these things may be risky and others just goofy, but all fun.
Besides jumping in the pool naked, I’ve walked around a private club naked, attended a swingers party naked, and I’ve actually danced on a stripper pole a time or two naked. But I still fantasize about a few other things i could do in my birthday suit. Read the rest of this entry »
I occasionally receive sex questions to answer on my blog. This recent question and its accompanying answer struck me as something I should share with a wider audience:
I can’t believe I’m actually asking this, but I’m kind of desperate. I am dating a guy who is uncircumcised and I’ve never been with an uncut guy before… I have no idea what to do with it. To be honest, I think it looks kinda gross, but I really like him so I want to learn how to work with it and pleasure him. How do I do that? Read the rest of this entry »
The woman is instructed to stand above the male on some sort of elevated surface, such as a couch, bed, two chairs, Mini Cooper hood, etc. With her legs spread wide, she gradually lowers her torso, so that her “yoni” is within reach of the man, who is standing on the floor just below her. Once the man is inside of her, the two lovers gyrate and pump to their hearts content.
This position commands the use of plenty of hands-on pleasure, such as stroking each others hips and tickling each others magic buttons. His mouth will be in easy reach of her breasts and she will have full control over the amount of stimulation he can offer. Read the rest of this entry »
Aug 13-16. Fetish Con. A fetish trade show. Featured appearances by comic book artists and writer George Perez, industry speaker and legal representative Robert B. Nussbaum, the original “Michael Meyers” Tony Moran, and Tonya Kay from Season 1 of “Who Wants to be a Super Hero.” Guests of honor: Stacy Burke Spokesmodel, Paris Kennedy, Kendra James, Maxine X, Emily Addison, Rubberdoll, Jean Bardot, Jade Indica, Paige Richards, Jewell Marceau, and Anastasia Pierce. Lectures and demonstrations: how to be a successful model, the federal record keeping statue, intro to bondage photography, self-puppeteer rope bondage suspension demo, predicament bondage, the art of body plastering, the art of cupping, the first amendment and obscenity law, super heroine showdown III, creating a presence via social networks, BDSM for the disabled, pain is for pleasure not injury, beginning rope bondage suspension, rope bondage for porn, fan photo shoot, and private dungeon play space. 18+. $20-55. Fetishcon.com. Read the rest of this entry »
You may know some of the more “traditional” forms of fetishes like bondage, toe sucking, and dress up, but there are as many fetishes as there are personality types. While some are more public with their desires, deep down I think we all have our own little fetishes. Below is a list of some of the fetishes you may not be so familiar with.
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In a recent study of 445 Ugandan women whose sexual partners were recently circumcised, 40% reported improvements in their sex lives, 57% claimed no change, and 3% said their sex lives suffered. The reasons these women gave for how sex improved may surprise you: better hygiene, it took longer for men to climax, and their partners wanted more frequent sex. Read the rest of this entry »
Getting into position: The woman draws her knees up while the man positions himself over her. Trapping her thighs in what is described as a “tight knot,” he saddles her and rides her buttocks all the way to orgasmville!
On a scale of 1 to 10 how would you rate position? 8
Did you have difficulty getting into the position? Slight difficulty. You will have to play with this one a bit to understand exactly what “tight knot” means. I’m not even sure we got it completely right … but if what I did was wrong, I don’t want to be right! Read the rest of this entry »
Body modification is done for a variety of reasons: art, decoration, enhancement, change, and sometimes necessity. I’m a fan of all types of body art, piercing, and plastic surgery, but any modification can be over done.
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For much of my life I didn’t think women enjoyed dudes touching their breasts, mainly because my idea of feeling a girl up involved handling her breasts and nipples like a malfunctioning electronic device that needed to be tweaked and prodded in order to work. It wasn’t until I started dating women self confident and mature enough to instruct me, that I realized the breasts can be a huge source of pleasure for women. Read the rest of this entry »
Getting into the position: The position is described as both the man and woman lying flat on a surface 
with their appendages, hands and torso directly overtop of one another’s. Clasping each other’s hands like two starfish making love, the lovers press their chests together and stretch out their thighs and arms while mimicking and complimenting each other’s motions.
On a scale of 1 to 10 how would you rate position (1 as horrible, 10 as sexual nirvana)? Read the rest of this entry »
As a contributor to this wonderful Sex & Love site I got to thinking about the two terms: sex and love. Sex is defined as the act of engaging in sexual intercourse whereas love is defined as a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. Love comes in a variety of forms. For example, you can love your mom and your significant other but in very different ways. For the purposes of this column, when I talk about love, I’m talking about romantic love.
The two words are inextricably linked. I know you can have sex without love, but can you have romantic love without sex? Can you have a passionate and tender affection for another person your entire life and never have sex with them? I’ve recently asked many of my friends this question and I’ve gotten both answers. Read the rest of this entry »
Getting into the position: The man rubs his manhood with wasp stings and then massages it with oil as 
it begins to swell. It is then prescribed that he let it dangle through the bed for 10 nights using a cool ointment to soothe the pain and swelling. After the 10th night, with the bonus of a rather enlarged manhood, he will be ready to make love to his woman.
On a scale of 1 to 10 how would you rate position (1 as horrible, 10 as sexual nirvana)?
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Did you have difficulty getting into the position?
I did not actually do this, but its interesting nature at least deserves an honorary mention.
Any recommendations on getting either in or out Read the rest of this entry »
Ever wonder what goes through the minds of those leather-clad, cruel beauties known as dominatrices? Well, welcome to my world…
My name is Mistress Sophie; I am a lifestyle dominatrix. I enjoy imparting pain and torment as part of the sacred trust between dominant and submissive. In kink parlance, I’m a fem-domme, or female dominant (not to be confused with a professional dominatrix). I do not hate men, nor was I abused as a child. My sadistic tendencies are not the product of a traumatic experience, but evolve from a deeper understanding of the vagaries of the human condition. I grant my submissives a form of existential release: the opportunity to submit to my will, to be an object acted upon, free of ego, conflict, and shame.
But before I can guide you safely through the many circles of Hell and Heaven, I must educate you. The world of kink can be a very scary place without a few basic guidelines. In this, you become my students. Attend to me, boys and girls, your life may depend on it.
Dac•ry•phil•ia: noun
1. A sexual fetish involving tears or crying as a stimulus. It is often a form of humiliation in BDSM relationships which the dominant partner derives pleasure from causing the submissive partner to cry.
2. The pleasure and emotional release associated with crying.
Use: Many believe Oprah Winfrey has dacryphillia, as she seems to gets a strange pleasure from making her guests cry.
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